How to choose a private escort
Perhaps one of the biggest quandaries of a gentleman’s life is learning to make decisions in alignment with his values and preferences. Because let’s be frank here momentarily – you’re a man, and not a boy. You make your choices depending on your own internal compass, and not based upon popular philosophies and social pressure.
From where you live, to where you choose to dine, you’re making decisions all-day, every day. And that process can get tiring. It’s called decision fatigue, and it’s a very real dilemma for the modern man.
Introduce the potential to enjoy the company of a variety of highly licentious women, and you have yourself quite the dilemma. There are thousands of sirens at your fingertips - how on earth do you choose between such beauties? It's a difficult cognitive load to bare.
Here’s the truth: indulgence should be a relaxing experience. You don’t want to add more labour to your stressful life by adding another decision to your overflowing plate of choices.
Yet when it comes to interpersonal relations, considered action is essential. You want to consider your play mate the same way you would a work of art, exploring her intricate curves and features with your eyes and mind until you feel she resonates with you on multiple levels.
So, leave your choice in restaurants, hotels and Uber drivers down to reviews and starred ratings.
When it comes to choosing a loving, affectionate companion, you’ll need to look within.
Not sure where to start?
Here are a few prompts to help you select the companion of your dreams.
Your budget
Seeing a companion is a luxury, so you need to decide on a budget.
How much do you have to spend? Can you realistically afford a $1000/hour escort?
Are you based in NYC, where consideration is above the national average?
Are you after incall, or outcall?
Whatever you do, never haggle prices.
Rates are never negotiable.
Personality
A picture says a thousand words, but a finely curated profile will provide a million more messages.
Have you read anyone’s profile or bio?
You should.
Most escorts will provide a detailed description of their personality, interests, values and preferences. In my own profiles and ads, I emphasise my love of the arts, fine dining, fashion, whisky, and whatever I happen to be bingeing on TV.
Don’t skim an escort’s profile or bio – there are a lot of indicators within which will tell you whether or not you’re a match made in heaven.
Reviews?
Ah, reviews. A contentious issue for many private companions, reviews are not always welcome. In fact, some review boards read more like erotic fiction. In fact, there’s one private reviews board I know of where members must post five reviews in order to gain access to more content. With such a strong incentive to review, I’d wager that some of these reviews aren’t even real. I know of peers who’ve had to argue with review board admin to review false reports that outline services they don’t offer. Whether positive or negative in nature, take what you see on review boards with a grain of salt. Or five grains.
Some directories allow public reviews, generally only positive in nature. However, new private escorts won’t have any reviews, but don’t let they sway you in the opposite direction. All escorts were new at some point, so don’t be afraid to set a date with a private escort without reviews, particularly if you’ve found her profile intriguing and unique. Having said that, some escorts prefer that detailed accounts of their dates not be published publically. This is why some reviews are fairly vague in detail, even for the most established ladies. The only way to tell if you'll form a connection with a private escort is to actually meet them in the flesh.